Comments on: What Does “For Better or For Worse” Really Mean? (Part One)

By: Linda Manns Linneman

Linda Manns Linneman — Thu, 16 Jul 2015 21:34:36 +0000

Life is so full of ups and downs. I know what you mean about depression. I have been going through some depression myself lately and am having a hard time digging myself back out. I really appreciate you sharing this great article

By: lifeunrefined

lifeunrefined — Sun, 11 Jan 2015 08:54:51 +0000

Thida, this just makes me love you all the more! Know that you definitely have another friend who understands the struggle with depression, and all the guilt we carry along with it. Can’t wait til we meet again so we can have another heart to heart. <3

By: Thida

Thida — Tue, 06 Jan 2015 07:22:11 +0000

Hey Jen! I’m so glad I came across this! How are you? missed your beautiful sincere face. I remember last year in LA, after the lucky FABB, you, Alina and I went out for deserts and I remember you told us “my life isn’t as glamorous” and the same time I thought to myself, mine isn’t either. We make it seem so great because we are surrounded by what sociey deem as perfect and what we should want and have. Bottom line is the idea of being perfect brought me to the same page As you are, depression… remember when I told you that it started when my mom passed. It was way before that, and till this day I am still struggling. No matter how great my life is in line, there’s always that inner mood swing that can snap my moods upside down, which has put a toll on my relationship as well. We are so blessed with people who have patience and love us because that makes a huge differnce. I’m so glad you stepped out to share such a personal story because now I know that I am not alone and you are not alone. I am still trying to find answers as to why i feel this way. But I know time will heal anything. I’ve learned to lift myself up by reminding myself of all the blessings in my life. Miss you and hope you are well! Jealous of all your travels but I’m so happy for you!
Best,
Thida Kol

By: christian

christian — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 12:51:14 +0000

Wow, what a compelling & heart wrenching story! I’m so glad you had your Mr. Wonderful by your side every step of the way! He sounds like a keeper:)!

By: lifeunrefined

lifeunrefined — Sat, 15 Nov 2014 03:17:44 +0000

Thanks for being a loyal reader. You’re in our prayers, Keith. Don’t give up.

By: lifeunrefined

lifeunrefined — Sat, 15 Nov 2014 03:13:24 +0000

You are dead on. I’ve lived with guilt about my depression most of my life because I grew up in a comfortable home, in a safe neighborhood, and had all the privileges I needed. But depression can happen to anyone, whether it’s triggered by a life crisis or brain chemistry. My hope is that by freely talking about it, I can encourage others to do the same and find support with one another.

By: lifeunrefined

lifeunrefined — Sat, 15 Nov 2014 03:10:55 +0000

Thanks Katie, that really means a lot! I love writing. If my story helps someone else, then my experience was not a loss.

By: lifeunrefined

lifeunrefined — Sat, 15 Nov 2014 03:08:50 +0000

Absolutely. I’m not sure I could have gotten through those years without him. Thanks for your sweet words!

By: What Does “For Better Or For Worse” Really Mean? (Part Two)

What Does “For Better Or For Worse” Really Mean? (Part Two) — Thu, 13 Nov 2014 20:45:03 +0000

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By: Tina

Tina — Thu, 13 Nov 2014 17:29:25 +0000

Thank you for sharing this, Jen, and being vulnerable dobwe all know that it’s normal when life–especially my own–is not as we want it to be. Kkeeping it real.